The long grey connector is called the 'C101' connector and attaches to the Civic 'body' harness and carries signals like the rpm, fan control, etc.
Normally there are 3 connectors installed on a Honda ECU. The 2 you already used ('A' and 'B' ) for the engine harness and normaly the 'E' connector all the way at the other end for extra signals like the lambda sensor wires and heater control. Some of these are connected back via the C101 connector to get to the right locations.
If you have a PRB ECU (from an Acura RSX, American ECU) then you can examine this wiring diagram for some tips on the 'E' connector and the C101 and the interconnect harness you need to build:
If you have an European PRA ECU (EU Civic Type R EP3) then this diagram is *incorrect* in several areas as some pins are different on the PRB and the American ECU also uses a wideband 1st sensor as standard, while the european PRA ECU uses a narrowband lambda sensor.
For more diagrams I'd suggest looking at Ebay for some Civic and RSX service manuals on CD as these include the wiring diagrams.
The STACK in the Speedster has mostly normal discrete inputs (eg. rpm signal is simple pulse signal). Only the temperature readout is a pulse-width modulated signal that normally comes from the Opel ECU in the car and you would need to emulate that. Some schematics with a small PIC are floating around to do that.
Bye, Arno.