So I've deccided to take it again, hell why not it's only been 4 times already what's a 5th....
I'm going to swap out the flywheel/Clutch Plate and Cover for my origional one to see if it's that causing the issues....
It's a bit extreme but the only way I can think of this isn't going to cost me anything...
So far have the undertrays off but not has time to do any more..
Also I will need a replacment Gearbox mount nut and bolt if anyone has one.. the long one that goes through the mount and bolts to the subframe as mine is fubar!
Jeeze dude, I feel your pain. Best of luck.