Couldn't agree more our kid...gosh my car's inner atmosphere is bluer than the clearest, deepest most sensual of 'blue lagoons' when i come across some of the foolish and downright dangerous drivers one meets but that is in the 'context' of privacy. In my car, alone my tongue is bluer than all the poor sheep suffering put together but then should i be behind the wheel of a busfull of people butter wouldn't melt in my mouth...'time and place' i guess.swearing is great in context
i get tourettes when i damage myself fixing things for instance....
To verbally vent ones anger is theroputic and theroputically considerably better than the alternative of physically venting it, indeed it's only natural but so is going to the toilet (natural) and i certainly wouldn't do that in public either.
Sorry folks (embarrassed icey alert)..my views/standards/upbringing/whatever (which was far from convential) and not something i should (or indeed do) expect others to understand or live by (deja view )
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Hello Icey
Nice to see you back!!!!
Hope all is well with you
We have missed you
This is Debs
ETA....smilie change
Hello Debs...lovely to hear from you my friend (sorry you caught me in full moan swing.)
It's certainly nice to be back amongst friends Surprising how isolated one makes/allows/lets oneself to get, maybe more surprising is how this group/forum full of people, the majority of whom have never actually met eachother and probably never will, feel like long lost friends and family. I suppose it's an individual thing but being as socially inept as i am this place means all the more to me.
Thank-You for asking , i am not too bad thank-you. Dealing with life in my own way (as i guess we all do) which i suspect would have a phychiatrist wringing their hands in glee, eyesfull of poundsigns at the thought of the days/weeks/years of theropy ahead that i need but then who is to say what is normal or right, i always think that if it works for me and is hurting nowone else then that's my boat and i'm happily watertight and afloat in it.
It certainly warms the heart and soul to be missed, like having a home away from home i suppose. Which is saying alot really because my home is my santuary, it can feel like a closing-in walled prison on the bad days and the exact opposite on the good, in reality it's both sides of the same coin and life's richer for it.
Business is extremely demanding mentally and physically but on those good days it carries personal rewards far higher and more rewarding than any monitory gain (good thing really as things are very close to the nail/bone financially but experience has taught me that the year will eventually level itself out, just got to keep going. I'll certainly never be rich but then all i want/need is security.)
How have you been keeping? I hope that life is treating you well
It's made my night to chat Debs ..one day, when me/the time/ect is right i'm looking forward to making good that
Nice to chat and i hope to do so again soon
...icey
Edited by iceman, 11 April 2008 - 11:33 PM.