To summarise:
These will be sent to Chris' family, with the message:
'In memory of chris_vx220turbo - we mourn the loss of one of our own.
Your fellow VX'ers at VX220.org.uk x'
These will be sent to Chris' brother's girlfriend, with a vase (preferably to the hospital; if not to home). The suggested message is (once I have her name, I will put it at the top):
'All of us at VX220.org.uk are thinking of you, and wishing you a fast recovery.
x'
Once I have contact details I will let you know, and I will post up receipts for both.
Please shout if I have forgotten anything...I can't log on to the site at work (only read it) so there will be radio silence during the day

Edit: thank you guys here and via PM who have so thoughtfully offered to cover the cost of PayPal fees. I will see what happens...
Edited by Yellow_or_black?, 04 August 2008 - 10:33 PM.