And there be the problem. I'm not sure there is actually a "standard" for drive-by's.
The Bedford Autodrome reading is meant to be taken at 20m and the meter's are sited at points on the track where you're naturally fully on the throttle and will be at high rpm or just where you'd change down in a braking zone. To compound that, at least two of the meters are closer than that, if you're on anything vaguely like the "line".
Donington's drive-by noise meter is much closer and sited above the track. If you stay as far away as possible from it, I guess it's something like 8-10m and they operate a 98dB limit on a normal day. Not been static tested there but got black flagged earlier in the year by falling foul of it.
Goodwood, another tight one, breaks it down for their two types of trackday as: "Category 2 Days” – (normally up to 5 cars on the circuit at any one time) : Maximum 105 dB at half metre from the exhaust and three-quarters maximum revs static test and 101 dB drive-by at approximately 10m on-track. “Category 3 Days” – (normally up to 10 cars on the circuit at any one time) : Maximum 98 dB at half metre from the exhaust and three-quarters maximum revs static test and 96 dB drive-by at approximately 10m on-track.
Castle Combe, again a strict one, say 100dB Static at 0.5m and 45° from exhaust at ¾ maximum RPM and also have a 94dB Drive-By, measured from track-side. Mostly a pretty wide circuit there, so depending on where the meter is sited, it's probably 10m+. Combe is a nightmare though as the scrutineering bay where they measure it, is surrounded by buildings/garages so might amplify things. I've probably heard of more people having problems there, than at Bedford!
Llandow might be a local'ish option for you. They do have a limit there but the two times I've been, they've been more than a little relaxed about whatever that limit is.
Motorsport Events' airfield days (three or four in the West country) have a 100dB static limit but I don't think they have a drive-by limit - I've not seen one enforced and there have been some properly noisy cars on a couple of their days that I did. They might be a possibility for you although if you're unsure, maybe worth dropping Ed Moore an email and seeing what he advises.
The whole bloody subject is a minefield. The readings can seemingly be affected by weather conditions as well, just to really throw a spanner in the works. I've been measured with massively different readings 3 days and about 20 miles apart.
It's only ever going to get worse as more NIMBY's start whingeing about the fact they've just bought a house next to a nasty, noisy circuit.